Saturday, January 31, 2009

The week I'd like to forget!

This has been a week I seriously could have done without. Monday morning I woke up feeling a little bad. I took some Tylenol and by lunch felt better. That night I ran a 101 fever and woke up Tuesday morning deciding to take the day off. Then I changed my mind because my fever had broken so I went. I felt AWFUL all day. I ran a fever on and off and decided I needed to take myself to the doctor. He said I had bronchitis and gave me some meds. Wed I was stuck at home and by Thursday I was even worse. Did I mention I do not get paid when I am not at work?!! So Greg calls the doctor for me because I could not talk at all my throat hurt so bad and they made me come back in! So I go back in and find out I have strep. They finally give me some medicine that works and today I am starting to feel like myself again. Today would be day 6 of being sick. Throw in a few overflowing toilets, Whit getting sick on Wed and again on Friday and I think that about sums up my week. Not fun at all. So I am placing it behind me and moving on. Hopefully to never return to this horrible experience again.

That said I need to update you on some of the things going on in our house lately. Kennedy just got her hair cut and refuses to take a good picture so I will post on that later. Whit is sporting his two new teeth very clearly now. He's had them for a while but they are hard to miss now! His look is changing so much! He spent the afternoon boycotting his nap. Every time we went back in to get him he would crack up at us. We eventually caved and let him come play because he was just being so darn cute. He just has that way about him.
We celebrated Greg's birthday with a Poker Bash! Kennedy was not invited but she did work hard with her mommy that morning to help make DaDa some cupcakes!

And this is a classic Kennedy picture. That hair....whatever will i do?

Some brother/sister love...I love it!





Whit and Lorelei...length comparison...crazy isn't it?



Whit loves his Lorelei...he just reached out and grabbed her little arm. I am not sure she feels the same way. Why don't you like my baby Lorelei? He is super cute, from a great family...we are going to have to work on your feelings!




The boys...I was not allowed in the garage for poker...do you think I followed that rule?




30th! Wow you are old Greg!






Friday, January 23, 2009

Happy Birthday GREG!!

Well today is a big day! Greg turns the big 3-0!! Finally he is as old as me! I spend countless hours blogging about my precious children so I thought today I would change things up a bit and get sappy about my Greg. It did all begin with him didn't it?

We've been together for a decade this year. A decade!!! WOW! I look back and wonder how it has been that long. I was just a baby when I first met Greg. We've grown up a lot together in our twenties. We got engaged in the early days, had a beautiful wedding...mmmmm... ..one of the greatest days of my life. We found the PERFECT place in the world to live, our barn. I feel like we grew up a little there. It was sad to leave. Then we grew up a little more and bought our first house. We were starting to feel like real grown ups then. Then we stepped into a new land of becoming parents. That is a journey I think we expected to come out differently. He stood beside me in the darkest moments I have ever experienced. He held my hand and told me it would be ok. He stood strong beside me and faced the fact that we might never be able to have our own children after mourning the loss of the baby we would have had. I watched him grow up a little more the day Kennedy was born. He instantly became a wonderful daddy, even worrying so much about her being in that awful incubator! He stepped away from a job that was comfortable to him to step out and support his family even more. He traveled more than he wanted to in those early days, but he did it for us. I watched him grow up even more when we had our son. He's a man of constants, my Greg. He likes things the way they are. He wants it to always be a happy same old thing place. I think as we've walked together through those wonderful twenties, he has seen that life is not always that. But as you walk, if you have your best friend at your side it might just be ok to step outside of that familiar path and seek out things you never expected.

He's the patient one. I'm the one tapping my toes. He's the pillow and I am the rock. He sees the sunshine when sometimes I am seeing clouds. He's the calm and I am the storm. I think that is why we work so well together. I am so thankful to have married my best friend. He might snore really loud and the way he sneezes makes me cringe just thinking about it, but I am truly happy. He loves our children more than I could ever ask for. He loves me unconditionally no matter what. He is patient and kind and is truly my love. I look forward to the next 30 years as we grow up even more together! Maybe we will be resting by then because our kids will be in their 30's! Happy Birthday my Greg! I love you!

Thursday, January 22, 2009

A few extra prayers

I wrote about this couple a few months ago when their daughter was born. She was born with a heart condition and went through surgery shortly after she was born. She has been heavy on my heart since the day I first heard about her. I don't know if it is the mom in me that aches for Bethany going through this with her precious daugher or whatever it is, but they are a family I pray for all the time. Her name is Emma Kate and she just went through another surgery. I feel like she could use all the extra prayers she can get so if you can take a minute to pray for her. I don't know why people have to go through things like this but I do believe in God's healing power. He can heal all things. Here is the link to her Daddy's page, Brooks, if you want to read a little about her. I am sure her parents will appreciate your prayers.
http://bkeis4.blogspot.com/

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

What are my kids up to lately?

Well, we made it out of the week of being sick! Yay!! I thought I might give a quick update on what the old kiddos are up to lately. They are growing up so fast!

Whit has entered the world of solid foods. I am not a fan of feeding babies. I would much rather just nurse them forever (strange I know!) So I wait until that day they turn exactly 6 months old to put anything other than precious breastmilk in their mouths. Whit enjoyed his cereal, we moved on to a little sweet potatoes and he really liked those. Last night I tried bananas and he shuddered when I put them in his mouth! Then he made a horrible face and gagged. I thought really? Are they that bad? So I try again...same response! Actually there was even more gagging the second time! Tonight we tried peas and he made a face at first but then really warmed up to them. He ate half a baby food container! What a big boy!! I have all these visions of making my own baby food this time. I might want to get started on that now that we are actually eating things now! He seems to really enjoy eating. He is such a big boy in his big high chair. He eats while we eat dinner (his favorite time of day) so I think he feels like he is participating now. He is growing up so fast! STOP IT!!

And Kennedy.....I don't know how to put that child into words that describe her correctly. The things she says make us laugh so hard. She is really into playing pretend. Her thing this week has been washing my hair and tucking Greg into pretend bed. She says she is going to come back and check on him because I do that for her every night. So sweet! She has finally gotten over our bedtime craziness and settles down again fairly well. Unless Chad and Jen's dogs bark and wake her up! Here are a few recent Kennedy conversations.

Whit eats his bananas and spits them out. "He no like those. Whit, you no like bananas? I want some. Let me have some!" We give her the baby food because he clearly is not going to eat them. She takes a bite, "I no like it, I no like baby food! Gross!"

We are cleaning up the bath toys and she says (to the toys) "Clean up, gotta go put on my jammies, gotta watch George, and go night night. Gotta close my eyes!"

My favorite: She looks at Whit and says, "Hey Whitty, Whitty!"

She hurt her finger and says to him, "I hurt my finger Whit. See it?" I really love when she talks to him.


My life is a whirlwind but I think it is supposed to be that way. My kids are growing up way too fast, but each moment is so precious. Each in its own way...that is except this morning when Kennedy wakes up at 5:00 and I never really go back to sleep and have to get up at 6:00...I could do without those moments. :) I'll take the good and the bad. It is worth it!

Sunday, January 18, 2009

6 Months and he'll melt your heart!!

Well, my Whit is now officially half a year old!! What?!!! Time does fly. I wonder sometimes what it will be like to have no babies around anymore. I love having a baby in the house! When Kennedy just started growing out of the baby stage, Whit arrived! I will say that his personality is about100 % sweet. He looks at you and with those sweet eyes he says, "thank you for having me." He just appreciates being here. :) Hang around him for a few minutes and you'll see. He will warm your heart in a second this sweet boy! I took LOTS of good pictures so enjoy!

At 6 months
*You have 2 teeth!! Check out the first picture and you'll see them if look really closely.
*You've now had your first meal...rice cereal and some sweet potatoes. Yum!
*You are on the move...at least in a circle. You will spin and spin to get somewhere. You also like to roll but haven't figured out that you can get places doing that.
*You are a professional bouncer!!! You love to stand in my lap and bounce and you really love your jumperoo. You will bounce forever!
*You are starting to care when I come and go. This morning you looked at me like, "pick me up" and I had to run to get something and you started screaming!
*You smile, laugh and enjoy everyday. You are so appreciative of life in general. I know I keep saying that but I am trying my best to describe your sweet personality. You just LOVE life! I love that about you my sweet boy!
*You are nowhere near sitting up. It goes like this...sitting position...I let go....you fall! Poor thing! You are much more interested in crawling!



Your babyhood is flying by before my eyes. I can no longer hold you like an infant and snuggle you close. You want to stand, bounce, and look around! You laugh at your sister on a daily basis. She says, "Hey, Whitty Whitty!" I look at you and wonder where the days have gone. I do so love the stage you are in now. You are becoming a little person who loves his family. You love to be around us. You love everything we do. You really make our home more complete. I am so thankful, my Whit, to have been given the chance to be your mom. I hope you can look back on these words and see how much we love you. I hope you can someday see that I would move mountains for you. I look forward to all that life brings for you my son. A son....what a great gift! I love you!











I know this one is gross, but Whit has really discovered Riley lately. He will just rub her back and she just sits there and lets him. He has a tendency to grab and pull which he has done to poor Riley and she is so patient with him. I think the look on his face is priceless in this picture. The dog that hated babies has really changed her feelings hasn't she?



Bath time is a fun time for Whit! He LOVES a bath!




His first meal...a little rice cereal and breastmilk! Yum!! Kennedy had to help out in the feeding process. She has been waiting on this day for a long time!


All done! He loved it!!





Wednesday, January 14, 2009

A morning to sleep in!

Whit stayed home again to recover a little more today. Kennedy had a doctor's appointment to check her ears again (she had an ear infection a few weeks ago) so the babies got to stay in the warm house this morning with their DaDa! And I for the first time that I can remember drove right by Miss Michelle's and went straight to work! Did I get there early you might ask....of course not! I was running in like I always do! Weird how that happens! They were so cute all cuddled in the bed this morning I had to snap a few pics. Kennedy and that hair....whatever will I do?

And as I am taking pics, Riley pops out! She does love a warm bed too! Oh and Greg does get a few bonus points for being Mr. Mom today. He didn't complain too much and I think he kind of liked it.....Whit is really sweet you know!



Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Bless his baby heart!

Well, Monday brought an ear infection to the Olliff house. Yes, my dear sweet Whitfield got his first sickness! Poor thing! He woke up with a 100 degree fever and I knew instantly. He had been tugging at his ear for a while with no fever and no fussiness. Then the cold set in and then came the fussy baby. He has made it almost 6 full months without even a stuffy nose! That is a big accomplishment if you ask me! You can tell in the first picture how stuffy he is. Those little eyes are droopy and swollen. It is so sad when a baby is sick! I am so thankful for having family close. My sweet baby has been loved on a lot and is on his way back to good health. Maybe we can make it through the rest of the week healthy! We'll see!


Sunday, January 11, 2009

A bit overwhelmed but I think I see sunshine ahead!!

Ok, so it has been said that I have a perfectly happy life. I blog about my happiness on a weekly basis. I love my children. They are precious. They do such wonderful things I feel the need to share it with all my family and friends. I haven't gotten out my camera all week, hence the no picture blogs. What in the world? This has been a tough week and I feel the need to reflect on it to prove that life doesn't always turn so peachy wonderful but it still is pretty darn good.

Kennedy has been taking FOREVER to go to bed at night. We put her down, she screams. She gets up 30 times. She screams some more. I am so exhausted when I finally get her down I can't even move. Then I look at the clock and realize it is time for me to go to bed! Last night we went to a movie and came home late. She was up until at least 1:00 last night. Same deal, screaming! Poor Whit, bless his baby heart, has been so sweet and goes to bed early so we can deal with his crazy sister. Did I mention Greg was out of town so I am doing this by myself? I did get her down tonight in about 30 minutes which is a record for this week. I am following the advice of a friend and going back every few minutes to check on her. Her knowing I am doing that seems to calm her a bit. She actually didn't cry at all tonight. Becoming a mom was wonderful. What came after was ever more so. I know I have so much ahead of me with these precious children. We will have ups and downs. As frustrated as I have been all I have to do is look at these sweet children and remember. I can remember how I prayed for them. I can be thankful for the problems because if I didn't have them I wouldn't have my babies. I have a friend at work with a very sick child. He is in and out of the hospital all the time. The doctors say his illness is terminal. His answer is that he doesn't know what God has planned for his son. He says he believes He will heal him, but if He doesn't it doesn't reflect His power to do so. That comment will stay with me forever I think. So whatever you are walking through, be it joy or sorrow or anywhere in between, there is a reason. We take what we get and I am looking forward to the sunshine tomorrow. Even if it rains. :)

Friday, January 9, 2009

Yet another sweet moment

I think her vocabulary has expanded a million times lately. She is constantly amazing me. Tonight we say our prayers and I always let her say thank you God for.... and we fill in everyone. After we say them she says, "Mommy, I love SuSu, and Poppa, I love Courtney, and MeMe, and I love Pops, and Uncle Patrick, and Blake and Henley, and Lander, and Paisley. I love you mommy." Word for word.... I think it is so sweet when she thinks about everyone she loves. If only we could work on the going to bed issue.....hmmmmmm......I'll take the joys and the struggles I guess! Have a great weekend!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

A Kennedy moment

We are snuggling on the couch last night and she leans over to me, puts her hand on my head and pulls me closer and says, "I love my mommy" as she strokes my hair. Seriously? She melts my heart!

My boys

Ok, so this week has been CRAZY so far. We had to keep the nursery at church (don't ask), I have had a HORRIBLE stomach virus and had to miss a day of work with NO pay! Ugghh...Went back to school yesterday and did not get near enough done because I missed a day of work, started back with kids today and realize my life is crazy....then you see things like this. Life spins around you like a blurr when you have little ones but moments like these make it all worth it...what is really important? My boys are so special to me! Whit does love his DaDa and that DaDa does love his little boy! I am so blessed!


Sunday, January 4, 2009

And for the first time EVER....

Here they are! They are both smiling! And they are in the same picture together! This is quite an accomplishment. I have been trying forever to get them to take a picture together. Kennedy is way to on the move lately to sit still for a picture. So here are my precious babies...in the same frame. It makes me happy!

Saturday, January 3, 2009

My sweet kiddos

I took a few pics yesterday I really needed to share! I just think they are so cute! :) Kennedy's hair has been driving me CRAZY!! I HATE bangs on a little girl, seriously I will never let her have bangs. It was so bad for me growing up with bangs...such an ugly phase! I also hate a mullet. I cannot stand for her hair to be shorter in the front than the back. That is why we have had 3 haircuts to catch it all up. A little bob does look really cute on her. Well currently the middle of her hair is growing in a downward position and the sides of the front are not growing! Everyday I try something new and nothing works! The side swoop with a bow is the only way and I am a little tired of that. So here is my little fraggle with piggy tails! It turned out sort of cute. She still had hair hanging down in the back. I hope we will soon be out of this unruly hair stage!

And Whit was being so cute last night before bathtime I had to snap a pic. He was on Kennedy's big girl bed, hence the polka dots. I really need to move him off of the girly things when I take pictures don't I? He has discovered his feet and gets so excited when he sees them again!





Friday, January 2, 2009

A little Whit!

Everyone needs a little Whit sometimes! He has been so sweet lately. I say lately, but he really is sweet most of the time. He is currently learning to roll around the room. He used to stay on a blanket but now I have to watch him! He has mastered the back to front roll to pair with his front to back roll and I think he is beginning to realize he can get places! He also has LOVED his present from Santa. Kennedy used to just sit in the jumperoo and he bounces like crazy! I may be in for it with a boy this time. Girls are just so content to sit...at least Kennedy was. I might need to get all my snuggles in now while he still lets me! Enjoy!

Happy 2009 people!

I hope you all had a very happy new year! We rang it in starting like a bunch of old people...our kids were all still up at 10:00...I don't think New Year's will ever be the same. :) We had to split up the party and take half of the kids to my house and the other at Jen's. Then we met in the middle of the backyard to ring in the new year..monitors and all! We are old people aren't we? Jen is in none of these pictures because I didn't get my camera out until later. And she didn't make it to midnight..bless her...a new baby getting up all night is hard! Why don't they come out sleeping through the night? I would have a lot more children if that were true. And I would also like to not be fat for a year after a baby too. Then I would really have a lot of kids. I am getting off track here. Here are a few pics of our fun night. I would like to point out that my dear husband was in rare form. He had a few regrets the next day!

The girls
J and Sarah...aren't they so cute?

A smoochie pic....Sweet isn't it? You know you wish you were me! Ha!


And Chad Prosser...yes he has on a pretty sweatshirt with PINK in it...I couldn't leave this one out! And he is smiling in it. I think it is the pink that is making him chuckle.

Greg and Chad...there will be no explanation on this one.




Me and Sarah and our fabulous martinis! There was a fire in front of us hence the smoky pic..

Oh and Oh my goodness....I got a text after midnight and Greg comes running in. It is a picture of a ring on my friend Anna's hand!! WHAT?!!! So congrats to my Anna. I am so happy for you! May you find true happiness with your true love. We love you!